Should I take a gap year? — I’ve been getting this question a lot lately. I'm not keen on "selling" students on the gap year because that kind of goes against what I think a good gap year is: allowing space for individuals to seek answers to their own questions; get comfortable with uncertainty; build confidence in knowing they can make their own choices; and learn to make mistakes and recover from them. Those are some huge life lessons that I believe help one to be successful and (more importantly) live a happy life. I am, however, an advocate of the gap year because of the powerful impact it had on my life, and the lives of hundreds of students I’ve worked with.
Deciding whether or not to take a gap year is a tough and somewhat scary decision. Graduating from high school is the first time in our lives when next steps aren't already laid out for us. It's OK to feel uncertain, and it's OK to not know exactly what you want to do with your life right now.
Uncertainty or anxiety about choosing a major or career is one reason to consider a gap year. College is expensive. Is it worth it? Absolutely! (I loved college so much that I went back for a master’s.) However, is it worth wasting a year or two (and all of that tuition $) trying to figure out why you are there, and possibly taking more than 4 years to complete a bachelor’s because you started before you were ready?
College will still be there in a year. A gap year won’t be the answer to all of life’s questions. But, if you make it a meaningful gap year, you will likely gain perspective and may find you feel alright with not knowing all the answers. An intentional gap year that allows you to gain real-world experience, get comfortable with uncertainty, and become more confident about your future could be worthwhile.
Maybe you know what you want to major in and have already pinpointed a career path, but just aren’t sure you’re ready for the independence college requires. Some gappers choose to take a gap year because they are young for their grade or haven’t spent much time away from home. A gap year is a good opportunity to learn important life skills, such as, cooking, budgeting, communication, building community (making friends), and learning resilience.
Some students choose a gap year because they recognize this transition period is one of the few times in our lives where it is relatively easy to hit pause and enjoy a year filled with adventure and learning new things through hands on experiences. Gap years later in life are possible, but often more logistically complicated. A gap year because you can — why not?
No matter your reason for considering a gap year, ask yourself:
What could I do next year to help prepare me for college?
Do I need to learn some basic life skills such as, doing my own laundry, getting myself up in the morning and out the door on time, or communicating effectively?
Could I use a gap year to gain some experience in fields that I’m interested in through an internship or shadowing someone whose profession interests me?
Make a list of things you could do during your gap year that makes you feel excited. Remember, a gap year is both a time to learn new skills and explore your interests and passions.
Some students and parents worry that a gap year will impact college plans. Research by the Gap Year Association shows that 90% of students who take a gap year return to college within one year. Not only that, students who took gap years earned higher GPAs than their non-gap year peers. 75% of gap year alum surveyed reported that their gap year helped them to get a job, and 84% said their gap year helped them to learn skills that allowed them to succeed in their career. Each year more and more colleges embrace the gap year as a positive experience for students. Harvard encourages all admitted students to consider taking a gap year.
Are there reasons NOT to take a gap year? Yes! While many offers of admission can be deferred, not all scholarships can be deferred for a gap year. Talk to your admissions officer to see if any scholarships or financial aid you have been awarded could be deferred for a gap year. Some students plan to use a gap year to reapply to schools that did not admit them previously. This is not a good reason to choose a gap year. There is no guarantee one will be admitted because of a gap year, and one risks losing their deferred spot if the school they committed to attending after the gap year finds out that they are using their gap year to apply to other schools.
If you'd like to chat more about gap year possibilities. I’d love to speak with you. Schedule a free introductory call with me here.
